491 Internet Dating

this is a serious note to a er... mate from somebody on an internet dating site. hahahaha

Hello
Good to hear back from you,i want to let you know that you and I share the same requirements for a successful relationship. I want to say that anything can happen if a persons mind is set to it. It appears as if we are so much alike in our views. Your wants and desires for a relationship are the same as mine. I am at a point where I would like to start dating again. I am not one to play games with, nor do I like playing games with anyone. Its very childish and very immature. It's not cool playing with someones mind, but people continue doing it with everyone. I have been single and looking for about 4 weeks, you definately are qualifying. My Last relationship ended 3 weeks ago. I wish we could meet right now for a cup or coffee or conversation but I am so far away from you at this time. I'm in Nigeria. I apologise for not disclosing my current location in my profile. I know you were under the impression that I am somewhere close to you. I have always been honest just not always upfront at times. You sound like someone I would love to get to know. In one or two messages to each other, I am starting to feel that I had known you for a very long time because you sound alot like me. I wish I had met you under different circumstances. I have had my fair share of bad luck and mistakes in life. It is no use dwelling on them though because I cant change the past and the only thing I can do is deal with the challenges the best way I can and hope for things to get better in the future. I am stranded here as a result of my last relationship. I was burnt so bad and I'm trying to find my way back to UK at this time.
This is hard for me to explain but I'll try..I am in Nigeria at the moment...I understand how you feel, forgive me for not disclosing my current location in my profile. I came to Nigeria on the 10th of April with my boyfriend Dave. Dave invited me to travel to Nigeria with him to meet his uncle. I agreed to go there with him because He was the only family I had left in this world. You heard that right..There is no such thing as a family for me. My mother died when I was three years old. My father died in 2003. I was an only child. I know we all have to make sacrifices but it is wise to choose the headaches wisely. I was looking forward to a great outing here in Nigeria but I didn't know that Dave had a different plan for me. When we got to Nigeria, we stayed in a hotel because his uncle was out of town. I believe we had to stay at the Hotel because he didn't have any uncle in Nigeria. He brought me all the way from UK to Nigeria just to rip me off. I have been stranded here for about a mouth now and I am trying to find my way back to the UK. He drugged me on the 29th of April before leaving for South Africa. He stole my money and some of my baggages aswell. I can't believe he would go a long way just to rip me off. All my life, I have waited for this thing called crazy love. I didn't feel it at the right time but I felt it for the wrong person at the wrong time. I'm heartbroken and left with nothing but expenses to pay at the hotel. The management of the hotel seized my return plane ticket to fly back to UK. I can't come to the state without my plane ticket.
You don't know what I have been through. I was thinking about my situation and how you would feel if you were in my position. I cannot imagine. When Dave brought me to this hotel in the first place, I'm sure he had to make reservations under his account/credit card. I ask the hotel manager to look up under Dave's account and charge to him and he said the reservation was made under my name so I have to be responsible for the expenses. I reported this to the police and hope that they do something about it but the officer in charge said they don't handle such situations. The hotel has to sympathize with me based on Dave's actions because it was unexpected. Don't you think so? I keep reminding the hotel manager about my situation. I took this as a psychological strategy, I keep reminding them, I tried to drive them crazy silently and maybe at the end, they will find a soft spot and maybe make some adjustments with the debt Dave caused me to have a heartache. I cannot believe how Dave treated me, taking full advantage of my devoted love to him, that is wrong. Now I'm stuck in Nigeria. I wish I can pay £400. I went to local churches and charity groups in search of help and they turned me down. They said they haven't receive charities from the public for the past 4 months and thus, won't be able to help me. I'm alone, scared and feel like nobody is helping me. I'm in an unknown land where people speak native languages I don't understand . I came here on a visiting visa without a work permit. I can't get a job and how can I make up the debt Dave created for me? The management of the hotel will not return my return ticket to fly back to the state to me if I don't come up with the money to pay the bills. I know that this is the part at which I could lose your attention, I just hope you will understand my situation and forgive me for not disclosing my current location in my profile. Like you. I am looking for something long term, but I do know that it takes time and effort to build a solid relationship. I want somebody to want me for me not something or somebody I am not. I want you to understand this, I need a loving friend who is willing to lend me an ear, provide emotional stability and be there for me. Who knows, maybe at the end, we might end up being together. Thank you so much for listening to me. I hope there is something you can do to help me find my way back to UK.
Lee Cares

[operator]

shes a keeper, shame she doesn't have a sister...
is duncan from blue singing at your wedding?

[Yer_Maw]

haha

"All my life, I have waited for this thing called crazy love."

[bracket]

Sounds like another Nigerian scamming case.

[joe pinapples]

for shame, Dave:

"I know we all have to make sacrifices but it is wise to choose the headaches wisely. I was looking forward to a great outing here in Nigeria but I didn't know that Dave had a different plan for me."

[thembuzz]

Originally Posted by bracket

Sounds like another Nigerian scamming case.

do you reckon? what makes you say that?

[bracket]

Just a hunch...

[thembuzz]

nah, i reckon it's all above board, me. she's just a lost soul looking for love. and some money