How young a girl-

[don___quixote]

-would you go out with?

dilemarama -i've attracted the attention of this young bird, before you start she is legal!, but i'm 26 and don't know if she's too young - i don't wanna say her age yet just tell me how young/low you'd go, thing is she's absolutely fucking gorgeous - no shit i ain't boasting, but i don't know if i can do it, i mean conversation maybe a nightmare but well you know the score...

thoughts?

[Jeniffer Mills]

As long she don`t call you "daddy" ..should be fine....

[don___quixote]

lol

[Paddy]

i'd go no lower than 19/20 tbh, 19's the cut off point.

[bob]

depends on the bird surely, and how mature they are

[thepigjockey]

9 years (sometimes 10) between me and my girl, but I was a fuckwit at 24, and she isn't.

'It depends' is the best answer really, but if you're worried about conversation then just have a torrid (and silent!) affair I guess :)

[Loz]

as long as you didn't start going out when you were 24

[soulcheck]

If she had her first period - she's ready ;)

[adsr]

This is something that's a prob for me too..
younger guys wanting to go out w/ me..
Went to a improv - comedy club w/ friends this last weekend and a very obviously younger (probably in his early 20's - if that..)comedian kept eyeing me and trying talking to me(found me a good seat at the club)...he was very cute - blonde hair+blue eyes and a very smart
fashion sense....if he was my age I would be announcing my engagement...
but the fact that he was so young made me feel uncomfortable....
he was SOOO young!!....so I kept him at arms length the whole nite..
It's ok for men to have younger girls, but I don't think the same is true for
women...
I think it depends however on where you are in life...are you looking for something serious or just fun??...either way if she's over age, then you should just be honestly open w/ her on what you want...fun or serious
and then see if she's down for either....but either way...there's nothing wrong w/ being friends and getting to know her and see what happens..
:)

[soulcheck]

How old are you, Adsr? If i may ask of course.

[adsr]

How old are you, Adsr? If i may ask of course.

I'm old enough to know that it's rude to ask a woman her age...
but I will say I'm older than 26...

[soulcheck]

That's why I asked if i may ask.

[gypsy_cream]

ive always wondered why its rude to ask

[ckpqerjwrpwp]

I find 95% of people under the age of 20 pretty annoying :)

[Loz]

I think it's because of the cultural stigma of the older woman

older men can still be sexy, according to public opinion, but older women can't

which is rubbish if you think about people like Joanna Lumley and such

[adsr]

ive always wondered why its rude to ask
when you're older than 28 you'll know..

:)

[gypsy_cream]

im lookin forward to bein a late 20s lady

[soulcheck]

when you're older than 28 you'll know..

:)

You're revealing your secret now ;)

[Loz]

I love older women. A lot to be said for experience.

[adsr]

im lookin forward to bein a late 20s lady

if you wanna know the truth, gypsy...
I think I became the most neurotic w/ myself between the ages of
25-30 and then found myself enjoying myself at around 32...

right now I'm pretty happy w/ me...and I've accepted alot about myself....
and in turn feel more confident w/ my decisions and w/ whatever neg/pos things come my way....

The only thing right now I'm struggling w/ is that i'm 34 and I look and feel like I'm about 26(and on my silly days - I look younger than 21 - I got carded by a very embarrased bartender last weekend - who ended up buying my drink due to being so embarrased...or so he said..lol..)

@soulchk - there are better ways to find out a lady's age than to just ask her straight-out...but i've answered your question...:)

[soulcheck]

As they say, women are like wine - the older the better, until they turn into jelly.

Fortunately most human beings die before reaching that age ;)

[philie-t]

Is she clever and fit?
cus if shes just fit then i wouldnt bother

[adsr]

As they say, women are like wine - the older the better, until they turn into jelly.

Fortunately most human beings die before reaching that age ;)

i'm very blessed because hispanic women tend to age slower..
and for me because i'm so super health/body conscious, even slower, plus
my genetics....

my mom use to get 30yr old hitting on her till she was well into her
50's...(very embarrasing for me..)..
it is a weird thing for me tho to feel so beautiful(not in a vain way - but more in a this-is-who-i-am-and-i-accept-that-kind of way)at this age and not when I was in my 20's when society says that's when I'm suppose to be at the peak of my beauty??...

[Loz]

Is she clever and fit?
cus if shes just fit then i wouldnt bother


and does she take acid?

[philie-t]

yeah acid or mushrooms, definatly, i cant go out with some stupid cunt birds whos hasnt been off her fuckin box

[soulcheck]

i'm very blessed because hispanic women tend to age slower..
and for me because i'm so super health/body conscious, even slower, plus
my genetics....

my mom use to get 30yr old hitting on her till she was well into her
50's...(very embarrasing for me..)..
it is a weird thing for me tho to feel so beautiful(not in a vain way - but more in a this-is-who-i-am-and-i-accept-that-kind of way)at this age and not when I was in my 20's when society says that's when I'm suppose to be at the peak of my beauty??...

Hmm. I think you are as young/old as you feel you are. It's hard to compare between people.

I am recently feeling old, and most people I meet think i'm older when they see me. Then they talk to me, and realise i'm younger than they thought or, more often, they think that i'm an old cunt :)

[thepigjockey]

Insert lame joke along the lines of 'you're only as old as the woman you feel'...

[thembuzz]

This is something that's a prob for me too..
younger guys wanting to go out w/ me..
Went to a improv - comedy club w/ friends this last weekend and a very obviously younger (probably in his early 20's - if that..)comedian kept eyeing me and trying talking to me(found me a good seat at the club)...he was very cute - blonde hair+blue eyes and a very smart
fashion sense....if he was my age I would be announcing my engagement...
but the fact that he was so young made me feel uncomfortable....
he was SOOO young!!....so I kept him at arms length the whole nite..
It's ok for men to have younger girls, but I don't think the same is true for
women...

why not? maybe it's a british thing, but i always figured the big paedo stigma gave more of an air of rumness to relationships where the male half is older

in any case, early twenties is not young enough to give you any reason to feel uncomfortable

I think it depends however on where you are in life...are you looking for something serious or just fun??...either way if she's over age, then you should just be honestly open w/ her on what you want...fun or serious
and then see if she's down for either....but either way...there's nothing wrong w/ being friends and getting to know her and see what happens..
:)

word to that

personally, i don't think i could actually forge a relationship with a woman who was any more than, say, 4 or 5 years younger than me. but for anything less formal, as long as i wasn't risking jail or fucking with someone's head, age wouldn't be a big deal to me

[JonnySpeed]

if you think she is too young then she is. I work with a 19yo who is too imature and at a different lifestage. She's cute but no.

I find 25yo young enough to be quite chuffed...
I've liked a few women in their 40s which is very cool.

If i met someone who i clicked with and seemed to want the same thing then I suppose any legal age is ok. you know in your head if your manipulating them. if so, don't. An 18yo into the same music and lots of fun wouldn't stop me.

[philie-t]

Im 30, this girl i like went out with was 22. good age..but 24 would have been better , even tho her IQ was 160, silly clever. She lacked the balls to move to chelmsford... gutted mate, she was proper

[adsr]

why not? maybe it's a british thing, but i always figured the big paedo stigma gave more of an air of rumness to relationships where the male half is older

in any case, early twenties is not young enough to give you any reason to feel uncomfortable



word to that

personally, i don't think i could actually forge a relationship with a woman who was any more than, say, 4 or 5 years younger than me. but for anything less formal, as long as i wasn't risking jail or fucking with someone's head, age wouldn't be a big deal to me


what's rumness??
early 20's and I'm in my 30's...I can't do that...feels weird....
I know too much...
my nephew told me to go for it...and I just laughed at him..

[Loz]

Im 30, this girl i like went out with was 22. good age..but 24 would have been better , even tho her IQ was 160, silly clever. She lacked the balls to move to chelmsford... gutted mate, she was proper

still got her number?

[ckpqerjwrpwp]

this thread is so bad it's like thembuzz started it

[gypsy_cream]

i got IDed in poundstretchers last month for buying a knife. the age limit for buying knives 16 forfUCksake

[philie-t]

hahahaahahahahhahahahahahh u gof ID for buying a plastic knife.. wot the ffucl? u planning on spreading the jam too thinly son?

[leatherface]

i
The only thing right now I'm struggling w/ is that i'm 34
wow. quite old;)

[gypsy_cream]

hahahaahahahahhahahahahahh u gof ID for buying a plastic knife.. wot the ffucl? u planning on spreading the jam too thinly son?

it was stainless steel and i wanted to cut lemons

[philie-t]

lemonaids

[don___quixote]

i've decided fuck it - not literally, well maybe but thats another story, take her out see what happens - its the only way to decide - if i'm uncomfortable, we've got fuck all to talk about, (edit - she spins out on the acid, her father/brother/uncle whatever tries to kill me or it doesn't work for whatever reason then it's probably not worth it.

[gypsy_cream]

i donrt look under 16

[philie-t]

i've decided fuck it - not literally, well maybe but thats another story, take her out see what happens - its the only way to decide - if i'm uncomfortable, we've got fuck all to talk about, her father/brother/uncle whatever tries to kill me or it doesn't work for whatever reason then it's probably not worth it.


Got a picture?

[gypsy_cream]

i've decided fuck it - not literally, well maybe but thats another story, take her out see what happens - its the only way to decide - if i'm uncomfortable, we've got fuck all to talk about, her father/brother/uncle whatever tries to kill me or it doesn't work for whatever reason then it's probably not worth it.


how old then?

[don___quixote]

Got a picture?

not yet - i'll do my best this weekend.

[leatherface]

http://www.facs.gov.au/annualreport/2003/_lib/img/volume1/photo07.jpg

[philie-t]

Is she alright tho her personality? shes not embarrasing is she?

[adsr]

wow. quite old;)


I love it!!..;)

[adsr]

how old then?

yeah..I'm wondering that too!!...:)

[JonnySpeed]

she had the IQ not to move to chelmsford or 22yo is one of those years where you want to do new things.

:)

[philie-t]

she'll learn.

[thembuzz]

this thread is so bad it's like thembuzz started it

i'll start a thread up your arse, plowboy

[thembuzz]

what's rumness??
early 20's and I'm in my 30's...I can't do that...feels weird....
I know too much...
my nephew told me to go for it...and I just laughed at him..

if it felt weird, it felt weird. but early 20s is proper, bona-fide adulthood. and 34 isn't old, is it? there's nothing creepy or cradle-snatchy about a woman in her early 30s seeing a man in his early 20s

rumness: sexual darkcore. eg: "you hang around rural laybys at night? you're a rum bugger, you"

[JonnySpeed]

beware of scrutney chicks... proper jail bait

http://homepage.ntlworld.com/andrew.currie7/scrutney.htm

:)

[gen-eral]

i think it all depends on the maturity of the individual really. You have some people in their early 20's who are very mature and those that aren't. Same with folk in their 30's etc, so just see how it goes is my opinion. You'll know soon enough D_Q-----GOOD LUCK. :)

[adsr]

if it felt weird, it felt weird. but early 20s is proper, bona-fide adulthood. and 34 isn't old, is it? there's nothing creepy or cradle-snatchy about a woman in her early 30s seeing a man in his early 20s

rumness: sexual darkcore. eg: "you hang around rural laybys at night? you're a rum bugger, you"

it's still a possibility...maybe...maybe...

[drop]

-would you go out with?

dilemarama -i've attracted the attention of this young bird, before you start she is legal!, but i'm 26 and don't know if she's too young - i don't wanna say her age yet just tell me how young/low you'd go, thing is she's absolutely fucking gorgeous - no shit i ain't boasting, but i don't know if i can do it, i mean conversation maybe a nightmare but well you know the score...

thoughts?
i was going though something like this
i'm back in school full-time
single
so its shouldn't come as a surprise that i'm dating a 19 year old
been dating her for almost 2 months now
its probably the best thing i've done in years
(not because of some barely legal fantasy either, i'm already over that)
her parents were a little sketchy about the whole deal
but
they've soften their stance since i actually care for their daughter
it probably helps that i don't look like i'm 35
they thought i was 25
her mom said 27 tops
and it probably keeps their minds at peace knowing that theirs someone there to watch over her.

keep an open mind
sucker

[adsr]

DQ - let us know how it works out for you..
I'm definitely interested in knowing what happens...:)

[drop]

if you wanna know the truth, gypsy...
I think I became the most neurotic w/ myself between the ages of
25-30 and then found myself enjoying myself at around 32...

right now I'm pretty happy w/ me...and I've accepted alot about myself....
and in turn feel more confident w/ my decisions and w/ whatever neg/pos things come my way....

The only thing right now I'm struggling w/ is that i'm 34 and I look and feel like I'm about 26(and on my silly days - I look younger than 21 - I got carded by a very embarrased bartender last weekend - who ended up buying my drink due to being so embarrased...or so he said..lol..)

@soulchk - there are better ways to find out a lady's age than to just ask her straight-out...but i've answered your question...:)nice to know theres someone else in their mid-30s on the board
i feel you about looking younger
one of my girlfriends friends asked me how old i was
i told her to guess
she started the guessing ask 22 lol

she still doesn't believe i'm 35
even after seeing my drivers license and VA card

from what i understand she dates older guys and she told my girl. "i know 35 and he's not 35."

[adsr]

nice to know theres someone else in their mid-30s on the board
i feel you about looking younger
one of my girlfriends friends asked me how old i was
i told her to guess
she started the guessing ask 22 lol

she still doesn't believe i'm 35
even after seeing my drivers license and VA card

from what i understand she dates older guys and she told my girl. "i know 35 and he's not 35."


The benefits of being Puertorican!!..:)
we look good!!..
;)

[drop]

amen hermanita boriqua

[JonnySpeed]

here's a test.

check out some russian 18yo teen porn. then some big tit plumper milf porn.

you decide which you like the most.

:)

[gypsy_cream]

babies eat babyfood.

when you get to certain age its whats in the head that matters.............

[drop]

babies eat babyfood.

when you get to certain age its whats in the head that matters.............maturity is what its all about when it comes to dating younger women
that is if you want more than sex from them

[garew]

I still don't know how old my great grandmother was when she died cause "it's rude to ask"

[Ladytron]

-would you go out with?

dilemarama -i've attracted the attention of this young bird, before you start she is legal!, but i'm 26 and don't know if she's too young - i don't wanna say her age yet just tell me how young/low you'd go, thing is she's absolutely fucking gorgeous - no shit i ain't boasting, but i don't know if i can do it, i mean conversation maybe a nightmare but well you know the score...

thoughts?

you say she is legal which means is fine, only depends of both of you if you match as a persons/characters.

here as soon as you are 18 you are legal. my first relationship was with a guy that was 13 years older. i was 18, he was 31. it was a nice 6 years long relationship.

uhmm... but now my husband who is known as MDK is 3 years younger than me and i love it :)

also, my best friend is in a relationship that last 13 years or more with a guy that is 17 years older than her. it goes very well and they have 3 years old very lovely daughter.

so it depends of both of you and the circumstances. good luck! (i made a mistake and wrote 'good lick!" but i changed it at the very last moment :) )

[kams]

my wifes 4 and half years older than me... it makes me smile when I think that she was in the fifth year when I was a first year.

[skosh]

i'm very blessed because hispanic women tend to age slower..
and for me because i'm so super health/body conscious, even slower, plus
my genetics....

my mom use to get 30yr old hitting on her till she was well into her
50's...(very embarrasing for me..)..
it is a weird thing for me tho to feel so beautiful(not in a vain way - but more in a this-is-who-i-am-and-i-accept-that-kind of way)at this age and not when I was in my 20's when society says that's when I'm suppose to be at the peak of my beauty??...

why are you embaressed by younger men hitting on your mum? i'm 49 and my bf is 34 and i dont even feel like there's an age difference, the last guy i went out with was 31...so what? that just seems to be the usual for me...and why in your opinion is it ok for a guy to go out with a younger woman and not the other way round?

[skosh]

ive always wondered why its rude to ask

me too, it's just a number innit

[ckpqerjwrpwp]

The benefits of being Puertorican!!..:)
we look good!!.
;)

photo. lets vote.

[adsr]

why are you embaressed by younger men hitting on your mum? i'm 49 and my bf is 34 and i dont even feel like there's an age difference, the last guy i went out with was 31...so what? that just seems to be the usual for me...and why in your opinion is it ok for a guy to go out with a younger woman and not the other way round?

I guess I just view my mom as being my mom, not necessarily a sexy woman....lol..

I think society is abit more neg about it is more what I meant...
But for me personally, I don't think I can go out w/ a guy that is too-too much younger, because of the relationships I've had w/ younger guys usually end up me taking care of them...which has been very bad for me...so that's why I'm not too keen on younger guys...but I don't think that it's a NO-NO for other people if it works and everyone is happy...

[adsr]

photo. lets vote.

Usually I'm not happy about photos of me..
but I've got one or two I'm ok w/..

I'll see if I still have them or if I've deleted them...:)

[Jeniffer Mills]

Usually I'm not happy about photos of me..
but I've got one or two I'm ok w/..

I'll see if I still have them or if I've deleted them...:)

Let me say that you look younger on the pics than you told us...But hey, i get guessed 10 years younger too, so fuck about the numbers...its all about how young "the heart " is...innit? :)

[adsr]

Let me say that you look younger on the pics than you told us...But hey, i get guessed 10 years younger too, so fuck about the numbers...its all about how young "the heart " is...innit? :)

I haven't posted any pics of me?!..

I need someone who knows how to make them smaller...:)

[Jeniffer Mills]

I haven't posted any pics of me?!..



Oh yes you did....;) Well i`ve seen one, and i know what you look like...remember? with the dogs??

[adsr]

Oh yes you did....;) Well i`ve seen one, and i know what you look like...remember? with the dogs??

oh..that's just half of my face...lol..

:)

[adsr]

This is me..
one trying to look sexy...
and one just having fun w/ my family..

:)

[Loz]

don't you try and take care of me at the bloc weekend, acdc, I won't like it

[adsr]

don't you try and take care of me at the bloc weekend, acdc, I won't like it

I'm a recovering take-carer...i'm going to tca monthly meeting..

lol..

and that's two...for spelling my name wrong...

[Loz]

just the cleavage will do fine, thanks

[adsr]

just the cleavage will do fine, thanks

no clevage in any of the photos above......sorry..
wasn't wearing my VS booster bra...lol..

[7875]

going out with younger girls is sort of a waste of time. i mean it depends. if yr 30 and she's 20, forget it. it aint gonna work out cause a) girls that age always change their mind b) chances are some other dudes are going to be trying to persuade her to leave yr old ass c) can you really trust a 20 year old who is just on the cusp of being able to go to bars (guess this only counts for americans, right?) and d) after you've gotten over the fact that you're humping a pretty young thing and your ego is nice and fattened up, can you really have future with someone who is just beginning to go throught the 'disposeable years?'

[garew]

I hear you. Pretty right. Especially if you meet them in bars/pubs. BUT 28 -35 year old women are hard to find. Those are the married years. So, early 20's and mid 40's (divorcees) seem to be full of single women. Im personally not too attracted to women in the mid to late fourties. Not most of them usually. Theres always exceptions, but I generally go for who ever is game if I am fairly attracted to them. I rarely ever get the women that I am 100% attracted to. I have to fish for whoever is into me, basically.

[operator]

-would you go out with?

dilemarama -i've attracted the attention of this young bird, before you start she is legal!, but i'm 26 and don't know if she's too young - i don't wanna say her age yet just tell me how young/low you'd go, thing is she's absolutely fucking gorgeous - no shit i ain't boasting, but i don't know if i can do it, i mean conversation maybe a nightmare but well you know the score...

thoughts?


age is fairly relative to experience....

i'm 27 and wouldn't drop below 23 i guess...

but have fun wi it blood...

you'll ken yoursel if its too much for her...

theres a number of 17 y old girls in the north of england who are 40 year old men in the mind...

love is the drug...

failing that, drugs are the drug

[operator]

comedy love to the nae fud crew who dis me cause i make a banal state o masel

ya'll a bunch of wriggling ocd fucks and i love ya

peas and futon

can't wait for die hard 5... phil, my dad looks like willis remixed wi phil michell and clive james, hes 60 but reckon hes good for 5 and maybe 6... depends on relapses really... 40p a week... livingstone stirling (drugs)

[hektor ruiez]

beast.
http://www.eog.com/uploadedImages/images/ENTERTAINMENT/23603350.jpg
watch your cash though.

[soulcheck]

To be honest the older you are the less significant is the age difference.

Bearing that in mind: dating with someone at less than 3/4 your age is quite strange idea. In most cases people are on different stages in their lives, which makes communication pretty hard.

But who wants to talk, heh?