View Full Version : are you wearing shorts now is so bloody hot?
emef
26th July 2006, 11:22
i dont wear them usually but i'm sick of being too warm
i've got a pair of shorts... nowt fashionable of course
and i'm trying to pluck up the courage to actually go out of the house with them on, but its not really happening for me
do you stoat around in shorts then?
and don't get me started on sandals :illin:
V Knid esq
26th July 2006, 11:24
I look 100% classic East Dulwich tosspot in my 3/4 length shorts (I didn't buy these mind, they were a wedding present of all things) and Birkenstocks.
ckpqerjwrpwp
26th July 2006, 11:25
I've been wearing short for about 2 months now... Knee length things.
aleks
26th July 2006, 11:27
yes, i wear shorts! and these...
http://i.shoebuy.com/pi/adida/adida101489_xs.jpg
when i am riding my bike. i don´t even wear a t-shirt, and sometimes i walk around bare-footed.
wheezer
26th July 2006, 11:29
shorts and sandals rock
I'm wearing 3/4 length shorts. Not shorts, not trousers. Inbetween.
May Kasahara
26th July 2006, 11:34
I'm wearing a skirt, but still sweating like a junior minister on Newsnight.
Spandex
26th July 2006, 11:34
I'm in my pants and sandals.
I spent all of yesterday in the buff. I had quite a long chat to Phil on MSN whilst holding my nob.
Patrick
26th July 2006, 11:37
I'm wearing 3/4 length shorts. Not shorts, not trousers. Inbetween.
These are the fence-sitters of the leg apparel world. Make a decision and pick one. What's it gonna be ? Shorts or trousers ? MAKE YOUR MIND UP, DAMMIT !
Patrick
26th July 2006, 11:38
I spent all of yesterday in the buff. I had quite a long chat to Phil on MSN whilst holding my nob.
An enduring image, Spandy. Thanks for sharing. lol
Patrick
26th July 2006, 11:41
These are the fence-sitters of the leg apparel world. Make a decision and pick one. What's it gonna be ? Shorts or trousers ? MAKE YOUR MIND UP, DAMMIT !
That said, I do have a pair of 3/4 lengthers so clearly they are cool after all.
Although this year I have been sporting a more adventurous, risque even, knee length pair of shorts. Outside the house and everything.
I saw an old man walking through Poole town centre the other day in pair of lycra speedos and sandals. It wasn't pleasant.
gypsy_cream
26th July 2006, 11:42
i been wearin 3/4 length short type things and a SKIRT!!! OH MY GOODNESS. i hardly ever wear skirts...so it's quite a big thing for me
emef
26th July 2006, 11:43
I'm wearing a skirt, but still sweating like a junior minister on Newsnight.
lol
V Knid esq
26th July 2006, 11:44
I think I might shift to Capri pants.
gypsy_cream
26th July 2006, 11:45
I think I might shift to Capri pants.
is that what you call the 3/4 length thingies?
ckpqerjwrpwp
26th July 2006, 11:46
Aye I have been spendin a lot of time on NF in the buff. You can tell when I'm wanking cos of the speling mistakes.
bracket
26th July 2006, 11:47
I sometimes wear shorts - just below the Knee...Utility shorts with many many pockets just so i can move things from one pocket to the other and convince myself that i have lost my keys wallet fags fone etc..
Wouldnt be seen dead in 3/4 pedal pushers.
May Kasahara
26th July 2006, 11:47
Men do seem to be afraid of showing a bit of leg. Cut Out is always worrying about what he looks like in his knee length shorts, which is stupid because he looks lush in them. I suppose if you spend your whole life in long trousers, baring some shin might feel uncomfortably close to wearing a skirt.
gypsy_cream
26th July 2006, 11:48
im afraid of showin leg cos im not used to it and neither are most people i know...whenever i wear a skirt everyones like oooooh wooty woo clair...so it feels like a bigger deal than it really is. i feel too tall to wear skirts/show leg
thomas hooked
26th July 2006, 11:49
i dont like wearing shorts. i forgot to pack any when i went to thailand and laos a month ago then i looked around and none of the locals wore them either, so i gave up. its a slippery slope to orange fisherman pants with cargo pockets and scotchlight detailing i reckon. best not go there, comfort be damned.
i reckon it is theoretically possible to find a good short though. its just most make me look like i'm twelve
these can fuck off though.
http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e140/rhys1978/crocofshit2.jpg
V Knid esq
26th July 2006, 11:50
Here I am with some friends in our capri pants
http://www.wazoodle.com/uploads/capri.jpg
May Kasahara
26th July 2006, 11:52
You wish! :D
Irrungenwirrungen
26th July 2006, 11:53
I love shorts & refuse to wear any trousers at all between the months of June to September even during rain. I can't stand that horrible, clammy sort of feeling that jeans give you during this time.
AVX23
26th July 2006, 11:55
I'm in my pants and sandals.
I spent all of yesterday in the buff. I had quite a long chat to Phil on MSN whilst holding my nob.
underpants comando :)
that woke me up with a smile.
I am wearing shorts today.
nico
26th July 2006, 12:01
why not wearing shorts in the summer ? as long as they are not those typical jeans shorts whith two white sticks looking out of it like worn in the 80´s, it´s ok :D
ckpqerjwrpwp
26th July 2006, 12:01
It took me a loooong time to get into wearing sandals but if you don't skate anymore the whole skate shoe and shorts feels pretty stupid...
I have a pair of Merrells, who used to have an ethical policy, but it dissapeared from their website.. It's a minefield eh ;)
I don't wear shorts, haven't worn a pair of shorts since I was about 5 years old. I hate them, I don't mind other people wearing them, but can't wear them at all myself. I even feel uncomfortable in swimming shorts, to be honest. Strangely enough, skirts are fine, which makes even less sense.
cut out
26th July 2006, 12:10
Men do seem to be afraid of showing a bit of leg. Cut Out is always worrying about what he looks like in his knee length shorts, which is stupid because he looks lush in them. I suppose if you spend your whole life in long trousers, baring some shin might feel uncomfortably close to wearing a skirt.
not really 'always' worrying as i don't wear them unless I'm on holiday because I'm too worried about what about what I look like in knee length shorts.
I think it's a hang up from my mum always telling me she wished she had my legs. I also have very nobbly knees.
Paddy
26th July 2006, 12:10
been wearing them everyday and night for the past 3 weeks
decadnids
26th July 2006, 12:15
i do the shorts, and if it isn't too hot wear my hiking boots.
nempsey
26th July 2006, 12:18
i dont like wearing shorts. i forgot to pack any when i went to thailand and laos a month ago then i looked around and none of the locals wore them either
yeah the short and blue ankles look makes you look like a total fookin tourist more than anything else
i like wearing shorts around the house but wearing them during the day has bad associations in my head with geeky american software programmer types
i hate 3/4 length trousers/ sandals look too. tho it is comfy..
ckpqerjwrpwp
26th July 2006, 12:19
Jesus, some of you have some major vanity issues ;)
Yer_Maw
26th July 2006, 12:21
haha totally.
gypsy_cream
26th July 2006, 12:23
for me its more an issue of people liking my legs...i'm shy....
thomas hooked
26th July 2006, 12:26
I don't wear shorts, haven't worn a pair of shorts since I was about 5 years old. I hate them, I don't mind other people wearing them, but can't wear them at all myself. I even feel uncomfortable in swimming shorts, to be honest. Strangely enough, skirts are fine, which makes even less sense.
equally strangely, i have no problem with short swimming shorts. my ex was a swimwear designer and left me with a fantastic array of sean connery vibe belted fitted swim shorts.
emef
26th July 2006, 12:28
my legs haven't seen the sun for about 15 years so have become a disturbing shade of uberwhite, i'm afraid if i go out in my shorts i may cause snow blindness in oncoming pedestrians/drivers ... and i'm also quite shy
AVX23
26th July 2006, 12:36
u guys should try going swimming, that helps u get over the shyness, I man fuk - I look ridiculous running around in just me shorts sticky up wet hair and shit, but hey...you gotta piss with the cock you've got....or whatever for women
I look even more ridiculous in my fukkin karate suit I wear for training...man that shit sure does help you get over yourself I tell thee
thing is - I can handle that cos it's like....wanna laff at me...do ya.....I break ur fukkin arms and legs tinker_san ;)
V Knid esq
26th July 2006, 12:39
Fuck it, if you've got legs, show em!
http://www.verystrangesims.com/gayhustlers/gayhustlera.jpg
emef
26th July 2006, 12:40
I look even more ridiculous in my fukkin karate suit I wear for training...man that shit sure does help you get over yourself I tell thee
thing is - I can handle that cos it's like....wanna laff at me...do ya.....I break ur fukkin arms and legs tinker_san ;)
haha i bet you wear your karate suit on the bus home, and you love it cos you think it makes you look hard for the laydeez :D
cut out
26th July 2006, 12:50
Jesus, some of you have some major vanity issues ;)
For me it's more to do with the fact that other blokes I see wearing shorts look stupid.
bracket
26th July 2006, 12:51
I got no probs showing my legs off.
Its the upper half that i rarely get out due to beer belly and man boobs...its a fucker cos i tan really well in this weather but is pure t shirt tan. Blue body, brown arms...
audiofelch
26th July 2006, 12:55
I saw an old man walking through Poole town centre the other day in pair of lycra speedos and sandals. It wasn't pleasant.
ah.. just one of the regular visual delights that poole tends to offer...
the dolphn centre on saturday lunchtime is the place to hang out for the best in lycra clad loveliness.
vknid: I have to confess to having a pair of loose trousers that can be rolled up and affixed with a button to become a sort of gay sailor / 3/4 length short attire.
Specifically for travelling through east dulwich.
has anyone found it very difficuilt to find ANY shorts this yr? Im off on holiday and have spent 3 days tracking a pair down.
went into that american apparel shop place.. jesus. only thing on offer were these super tight thigh-baring bright yellow things. no doubt with convenient testicle pouch/innershorts to help you work up a nice chaffing sweat.
the idea of me in them... it would be like watching two string-bound pork joints wadling down the street.
aleks
26th July 2006, 12:58
racket']I got no probs showing my legs off.
Its the upper half that i rarely get out due to beer belly and man boobs...its a fucker cos i tan really well in this weather but is pure t shirt tan. Blue body, brown arms...
i´ve got a beer belly too...no man boobs though. fuck that...i run half-naked in this heat wherever i go. it´s good. and who really cares what other people think? and the ladies love the belly...
i wore shorts to work the other day. got slagged off for looking like a tourist :(
rolled up jeans and sandles for me today. thinking about putting a knotted hanky on my head too.
AVX23
26th July 2006, 13:11
haha i bet you wear your karate suit on the bus home, and you love it cos you think it makes you look hard for the laydeez :D
heh heh - I do actually - just the troozahs tho , not the top.
I'm quite a sight with my white karate pants and cammo jacket not so much hard for the laydeez, we train in between pilton and granton....s no nice :)
ckpqerjwrpwp
26th July 2006, 13:12
For me it's more to do with the fact that other blokes I see wearing shorts look stupid.
Ooooh you mean Vanity? ;)
Orang Utan
26th July 2006, 13:21
I'm wearing proper men's shorts - handy for the bike and nice and cool too.
I have very pale white legs covered in ginger hair, so if I can wear shorts out the rest of you vain sissies can too.
Daddys Girl
26th July 2006, 13:26
I've been 3/4 length trousers (like my Paul's Boutique ones) and recently, been in skirts. Living in flip-flops or birkenstocks so my feet can breathe!
It's only the men in my workplace that are getting told off for wearing shorts - the women seem to be getting away with it somehow - I thought I was gonna get told for wearing those 3/4 trousers with stuff all over them!
Scoz
26th July 2006, 13:33
I would do if I was at home, except if I was going to the shops. I suppose it's a vanity thing but I feel like a pillock wearing shoes & socks with my shorts. All the shoes I have though require socks. I suppose I could get some Plus 4s because it's acceptable, almost a requirement, to wear socks with them.
Orang Utan
26th July 2006, 13:40
You need to buy some trainers and those little socks that just cover the foot
gypsy_cream
26th July 2006, 13:41
i been wearin a skirt with high tops...yeeeeaaaA
Daddys Girl
26th July 2006, 13:42
i been wearin a skirt with high tops...yeeeeaaaA
that sounds cool. I bought a dress for the firs time in ages last weekend & I've got my eye on some that I wanna get to wear with traniers.
Patrick
26th July 2006, 13:46
I believe this is the correct summer attire for the british gentleman :
http://www.badshoe.com/images/SpringShoe/guy02.JPG
gypsy_cream
26th July 2006, 13:46
thats pretty sexy
Orang Utan
26th July 2006, 13:48
They'd be even better if they were Argyll
gypsy_cream
26th July 2006, 13:49
that sounds cool. I bought a dress for the firs time in ages last weekend & I've got my eye on some that I wanna get to wear with traniers.
i feel silly wearing a skirt with anything other than trainers..not sure why
Daddys Girl
26th July 2006, 13:57
@ gypsy_cream: really? I've never done skirts with trainers (unless you count converse with denim skirts) - I'm talking about girlie flowing skirts, which is what I wanna try it with... when I've worn skirts, it's always been with sandals/shoes.
spoon
26th July 2006, 13:59
I believe this is the correct summer attire for the british gentleman :
http://www.badshoe.com/images/SpringShoe/guy02.JPG
proper múinteoir chic :)
cut out
26th July 2006, 13:59
Ooooh you mean Vanity? ;)
rampant insecurity, maybe.
skinny people have issues too.
gypsy_cream
26th July 2006, 14:01
true cutout!
emef
26th July 2006, 14:04
@ gypsy_cream: really? I've never done skirts with trainers (unless you count converse with denim skirts) - I'm talking about girlie flowing skirts, which is what I wanna try it with... when I've worn skirts, it's always been with sandals/shoes.
skirts/dresses with trainers are the bomb, as are skirts/dresses with doc marten boots
skirts/dresses with doc marten boots
bet you must've done that combination during the 80s
emef
26th July 2006, 14:11
the 90s actually
Yer_Maw
26th July 2006, 14:14
i got called various things the other week in the park "whitest cunt ive ever seen" "haw whito" etc. does that count as racist abuse?
who cares, fun in the sun and who gives a fuck.
FiST
26th July 2006, 14:16
did you get egged again dave?
emef
26th July 2006, 14:16
haha that made me laff
Yer_Maw
26th July 2006, 14:20
did you get egged again dave?
luckily i have remained egg-free these past few weeks. although i did pass out only wearing me shorts. bevy saved me from the abuse.
ckpqerjwrpwp
26th July 2006, 14:21
rampant insecurity, maybe.
skinny people have issues too.
fair enough, I'm not proud of my gut.
adsr
26th July 2006, 14:23
shorts I'm a little timid because I use to skateboard and my knees aren't the pretty things to look at...but recently I've been sunning and it doesn't look to bad, so this weekend I'm off to buy some shorts..
sandals...depends on what kind...flip flops...hell, yes...they are comfy and the closest thing to being barefoot which I adore...:)
"cute" strappy sandals - vomit..
I wouldn't dare wear a skirt in Scotland. Be too scared of being killed with sticks.
I hate the noise flip flops make.
emef
26th July 2006, 14:27
I wouldn't dare wear a skirt in Scotland. Be too scared of being killed with sticks.
you wouldn't have to be wearing a skirt for that to happen ;) chortle
ckpqerjwrpwp
26th July 2006, 14:31
The sound of my ladies flip flops drives me insane.
Daddys Girl
26th July 2006, 14:43
as are skirts/dresses with doc marten boots
:) - I used to wear that combo to secondary school!
- short blue skirt with DM boots!
emef
26th July 2006, 14:45
quality :)
Patrick
26th July 2006, 14:56
proper múinteoir chic :)
lol
thembuzz
26th July 2006, 15:02
i wouldn't be seen dead in shorts
emef
26th July 2006, 15:12
well of course... totally inappropriate for a funeral
nempsey
26th July 2006, 15:15
skirts/dresses with trainers are the bomb, as are skirts/dresses with doc marten boots
figure hugging dress above the knee with knee high fuck-off leather boots....thank the lord, my good lady wears that combination quite often. and i'm a happy man
Jeniffer Mills
26th July 2006, 15:38
I`m naked...
AVX23
26th July 2006, 15:40
well of course... totally inappropriate for a funeral
heh,
well dress me in a pink tutu and nail the box shut
stab the box right thru with a pike and stick me in the ground
a manly way to die....
älgjävel
26th July 2006, 15:42
http://www.klot.net/pictures/2006/10266/016.jpg
birkenstock slippers, shorts and.. a parrot? is the shizzle
Sheridan
26th July 2006, 15:43
it has been getting hot here but I am still wearing jeans.
I much prefer wearing the thin nylon soccer pants when it gets too hot.
I am not much for shorts.
adsr
26th July 2006, 16:02
@Loz and Numbnuts - I'm not wearing flip flops for your comfort, but for my own...so:
SUFFER THE WRATH OF THE FLIP-FLOPS!!....
:)
joe pinapples
26th July 2006, 16:25
Shorts are ace, I used to be too British to wear them until I went on holiday to some really hot places and then you have no choice. So now the shorts are on.
Lady E
26th July 2006, 17:46
get some bloody shorts on it is TOO HOT for vanity!!
it's way too hot for trainers or shoes - havaina flip flops or birkenstocks please! decadnids i do hope you havent been wearing your hiking boots recently? making me hot (not in a good way) just thinking about it.
i have mainly been wearing a selection of kaftans, embroidered eastern european smocks, a lovely jersey skirt from primark and cotton sundresses. with FLIP FLOPS!
Patrick
26th July 2006, 17:49
embroidered eastern european smocks
purple carpet underlay smocks, I hope.:)
synchronoise
26th July 2006, 17:54
Steel toecaps, trousers rolled up to my knees and a hankie on my head. And when i'm not in the bath I like to wear a shell suit in the blazing heat.
decadnids
26th July 2006, 17:57
decadnids i do hope you havent been wearing your hiking boots recently? making me hot (not in a good way) just thinking about it.
i do sometimes Emma, if for example i am out in the woods, and there are stinging nettles all over the place, although i will still wear shorts, as for some reason i quite like my ankles getting stung!!!
but today, i am sporting a pair of sandles, and shorts - and a shirt ofcourse.
Orang Utan
26th July 2006, 18:03
it's way too hot for trainers or shoes
I've never worn owt but trainers - I can't say I've ever felt the heat on my feet - can't ride in flipflops either
Sheridan
26th July 2006, 18:26
I find it difficult to drive in flip flops or sandals.
trainers all the way.
adsr
26th July 2006, 18:30
Steel toecaps, trousers rolled up to my knees and a hankie on my head. And when i'm not in the bath I like to wear a shell suit in the blazing heat.
all made of polyester I hope...
it's all about style, my man....all about style...
synchronoise
26th July 2006, 18:43
all made of polyester I hope...
it's all about style, my man....all about style...
I've got style coming out of my buttcrack.lol
Not as much style as this fine young man though.
http://images.clickmusic.co.uk/pages/pink_shellsuit.jpg
grobelaar
26th July 2006, 18:44
I look 100% classic East Dulwich tosspot in my 3/4 length shorts (I didn't buy these mind, they were a wedding present of all things) and Birkenstocks.
are they dpm?
JonnySpeed
26th July 2006, 20:16
these are nice on a hot day hmmm... nylon and shiny
http://www.ballyhoovintage.com/miva/images/80120d2s.gif
Jeniffer Mills
26th July 2006, 20:32
Actually, it`s inevitable to wear flip flops or sandals right now.... I only wear my sneakers when i`m on my bike..... But when i take them off, the room has to be evacuated within seconds!!!!lol
garew
26th July 2006, 20:33
What is wrong with Crocs? They look comfy.
penciLneck
26th July 2006, 20:50
what a great thread. topical and to the point.
I am fully shorted and hairy legged in a fetching shade of green I picked up in Istanbul.
length: just off the knee.
Paddy
26th July 2006, 21:05
these are nice on a hot day hmmm... nylon and shiny
http://www.ballyhoovintage.com/miva/images/80120d2s.gif
chicks in a vest, a pair of them, bobbysocks and adidas hightops.
mmmm mm.
Daddys Girl
26th July 2006, 21:48
The sound of my ladies flip flops drives me insane.
I was having a conversation about the sound of flip-flops with Grobs the other day, but I'm sure he can explain it better than I'll attempt to....
I got a free but very comfy pair with a magazine last month - I wore them when we went down to the beach & for some bizarre reason I wore them in the water - I my feet were squelching all the way back to the flat - it sounded awful!
Sheridan
26th July 2006, 23:22
What is wrong with Crocs? They look comfy.
do you mean these?
http://www.sailingangles.com/prodimg/crocs.jpg
I think look hideous personally.
I have heard they are comfortable, but I like a little fashion with my function.
Sheridan
26th July 2006, 23:24
although I must say, when it comes to socks I wear the little athletic ones that come just under your ankle. so in trainers it looks like you aren't wearing socks.
it is all about letting the ankles breath. I also wear them in the winter unless it is really cold out.
ckpqerjwrpwp
26th July 2006, 23:32
I think look hideous personally.
I have heard they are comfortable, but I like a little fashion with my function.
They look like total fashion objects to me, that kind of ironic ugly fashion.
Jeniffer Mills
26th July 2006, 23:32
although I must say, when it comes to socks I wear the little athletic ones that come just under your ankle. so in trainers it looks like you aren't wearing socks.
it is all about letting the ankles breath. I also wear them in the winter unless it is really cold out.
..ankles can`t "breathe" sheri?
ckpqerjwrpwp
26th July 2006, 23:37
..ankles can`t "breathe" sheri?
I think Sheri is 'coming out'.
"Mom.. Pops... I'm a locust."
Paddy
26th July 2006, 23:44
I think Sheri is 'coming out'.
"Mom.. Pops... I'm a locust."
hahaha!
chicks in a vest, a pair of them, bobbysocks and adidas hightops.
mmmm mm.
http://www.ukquad.com/gregorys%20girl%20b.jpg
bella bella lol
I used to fancy Claire Grogon rotten when I was a kid
spoon
27th July 2006, 00:15
basketball shorts are great.
http://www.customjersey.com/images/b330.jpg
try them, your scrotum will thank you.
Paddy
27th July 2006, 00:44
never found dee hepburn that sexy tbh keo. i'm thinkin more 1970's american netball chick with big bouncy 70's curls. used to have a great 70's porno flick called High School Memories, it was about a bunch of cheerleaders that toured the country with the american football team and, funnily enough, fucked them all. it was full of hot bobbysocked honeys.
some cunt nicked it :(
adsr
27th July 2006, 01:33
I've got style coming out of my buttcrack.lol
Not as much style as this fine young man though.
http://images.clickmusic.co.uk/pages/pink_shellsuit.jpg
you never disappoint me noise...:)
adsr
27th July 2006, 01:38
chicks in a vest, a pair of them, bobbysocks and adidas hightops.
mmmm mm.
I don't think that the chick in the pic is a good model for the shorts...
(no junk in the trunk...no butt in the boot?....no ass to back up....)
how can this pic be mmmm mmm...
who are you mmmm mmming?..
lol...
ckpqerjwrpwp
27th July 2006, 02:20
how can this pic be mmmm mmm...
who are you mmmm mmming?..
lol...
No idea, I always thought she was a minger :)
adsr
27th July 2006, 02:32
No idea, I always thought she was a minger :)
does minger mean assless?...cause this girl is minging out, then...
she's captain minger...
president of mingers association for we need some butt implants association...lol..
love_tempo
27th July 2006, 11:02
Men who don't wear shorts in this weather look sillier than people who do. Oh look at me, I don't feel the heat because I am so cool :)
When you see people from whole families from Lahore walking around after midnight that means it's too hot for trousers, get it?
On the other hand, manchester is so filthy that I'm not sure I want to wear sandals here.
May Kasahara
27th July 2006, 11:13
never found dee hepburn that sexy tbh keo. i'm thinkin more 1970's american netball chick with big bouncy 70's curls.
Like Nancy Allen in "Carrie" - she was superhot (and a superbitch too).
I've always really liked that style, think I should start cruising charity shops for retro shorts.
nempsey
27th July 2006, 11:22
does minger mean assless?...cause this girl is minging out, then...
she's captain minger...
president of mingers association for we need some butt implants association...lol..
minger has become british slang for ugly but originally mingin was the glaswegian word for dirty.
gregory's girl is probably my favourite film of all time.
Lady E
27th July 2006, 11:54
minger has become british slang for ugly but originally mingin was the glaswegian word for dirty.
gregory's girl is probably my favourite film of all time.
"tits bum fanny - the lot"
Yer_Maw
27th July 2006, 13:42
anyone for tenuous? i went to school with dee hepburns neice.
thembuzz
27th July 2006, 14:06
Men who don't wear shorts in this weather look sillier than people who do. Oh look at me, I don't feel the heat because I am so cool :)
no! "'vanity of vanities,' saith the preacher, 'vanity of vanities. vanity is all'"
emef
27th July 2006, 14:12
is being vain the same as feeling self conscious?
thembuzz
27th July 2006, 14:19
is being vain the same as feeling self conscious?
well, i suppose it stems from self-consciousness, yeah
i'm happy being vain, though. the upside of vanity is that, when you do think you look good, it feels fantastic
emef
27th July 2006, 14:31
i've often thought vanity is quite an ugly thing most often suffered by the deluded, must be nice though even if it is misplaced
thembuzz
27th July 2006, 15:44
i've often thought vanity is quite an ugly thing most often suffered by the deluded, must be nice though even if it is misplaced
well, 'vain' isn't really the right word. my not wearing shorts in hot weather isn't conceit... if i was conceited, i'd think i looked good whatever i wore
Lady E
27th July 2006, 16:01
Like Nancy Allen in "Carrie" - she was superhot (and a superbitch too).
yeah - she was cool!
nempsey
27th July 2006, 16:19
"tits bum fanny - the lot"
:)
dom_90
27th July 2006, 16:38
i'm wearing shorts now, much nicer!
...have to wear black trousers for work and in the heat its fucking horrible
penciLneck
27th July 2006, 21:31
is being vain the same as feeling self conscious?
vanity is thinking you look good. being self conscious is thinking you look bad all the time and being paranoid about it.
either way its narcissistic.
nikrem
27th July 2006, 22:01
vintage lacoste skimpy trunks and box-fresh white fakenstocks all the way.
adsr
27th July 2006, 22:55
old comfy jeans cut short slightly above thigh w/ skate shirt and flip flops...the dress of champions....
thembuzz
28th July 2006, 00:16
vanity is thinking you look good. being self conscious is thinking you look bad all the time and being paranoid about it.
either way its narcissistic.
how is thinking you look bad all the time narcissistic?
ckpqerjwrpwp
28th July 2006, 00:17
how is thinking you look bad all the time narcissistic?
because it's obsession with your appearance.
emef
28th July 2006, 00:42
vanity is thinking you look good. being self conscious is thinking you look bad all the time and being paranoid about it.
either way its narcissistic.
haha its great when someone gives you the answer to a question you asked sarcastically
cheers though ;)
garew
28th July 2006, 06:02
I am still not used to seeing my bald head in pictures so I tend to whince when I'm getting my photo done. Its vain, but a little vainity is OK. Otherwise, I wouldn't bathe and Id probably wear the same thing everyday. Hey, maybe I'm not vain.
thembuzz
28th July 2006, 11:49
because it's obsession with your appearance.
that's not narcissism, though. narcissism is being all-out in love with yourself, unless we're talking about the psychological condition, in which case it's a lot more complex. being obsessed with your appearance is more likely to be a result of low self-esteem than unduly high self-esteem
personally, i think someone who can go out in public looking like a tramp and not feel self-conscious must hold themselves in fairly high regard
ckpqerjwrpwp
28th July 2006, 11:56
personally, i think someone who can go out in public looking like a tramp and not feel self-conscious must hold themselves in fairly high regard
um no, maybe they just don't even think about it.. now you sound like a narcissist :)
(you were right about narcissism in general tho I wrongly thought it was just obsession with you appearance)
thembuzz
28th July 2006, 12:04
um no, maybe they just don't even think about it.. now you sound like a narcissist :)
well, in fairness, i was being facetious, but - hypothetically - wouldn't you say there's as strong an argument for that as there is for people who are obsessed with their appearance being narcissistic?
it just winds me up a bit, the assumption that if someone displays characteristic x, then they fit comfortably into box y. that's balls. human beings aren't plants. you can't classify them according to a set of clear and simple rules
yeah, i take my grooming quite seriously; yeah, i worry about my appearance a little too much... it doesn't make me a big, gaping void
ckpqerjwrpwp
28th July 2006, 12:10
Fair play. I think life is too short for it personally, i'd happily live in a place without mirrors, reckon it would make my gf happier in the long run too!
dSort
28th July 2006, 12:19
i couldn`t imagine summer without shorts`n`sandals.
thembuzz
28th July 2006, 12:24
Fair play. I think life is too short for it personally, i'd happily live in a place without mirrors, reckon it would make my gf happier in the long run too!
heheh. i doubt it...
sorry, i don't mean to get all heavy. i was just getting a bit tired of the implications that were flying about
ckpqerjwrpwp
28th July 2006, 12:28
heheh. i doubt it...
sorry, i don't mean to get all heavy. i was just getting a bit tired of the implications that were flying about
my gf and I spent two weeks on holiday once in an apartment without a mirror and she admitted how liberating it felt... after realising on the first day that there wasn't one she didn't even think about it again.
thembuzz
28th July 2006, 12:29
well, then go for it! smash the fuckers!
I don't think I'd be happier without a mirror. After all, how else am I going to check that there aren't hairs growing out of my nose and pull them out?
ckpqerjwrpwp
28th July 2006, 12:32
I don't think I'd be happier without a mirror. After all, how else am I going to check that there aren't hairs growing out of my nose and pull them out?
I just pull em all out without looking, for eye-watering sport :)
Lady E
28th July 2006, 14:18
my gf and I spent two weeks on holiday once in an apartment without a mirror and she admitted how liberating it felt... after realising on the first day that there wasn't one she didn't even think about it again.
god i would go insane.
mirrors are brilliant, i love looking at myself and im not ashamed of it either. i dont think im great looking, maybe its to do with being an only child, only had myself for company. sob.
Spandex
28th July 2006, 14:27
hehehe. only a mirror for company.. like a little bird :)
Orang Utan
28th July 2006, 14:37
I never look in the mirror unless I'm taking in/putting in contacts - I know what I look like and I rely on other people telling me I've got a smudge
ckpqerjwrpwp
28th July 2006, 14:46
I do sometimes wish I looked in mirrors more.. like when I look in the mirror and my hair is standing up and I look a bit 'special'.. and then remember that the last time I looked in a mirror it was two weeks ago and I had it back then too. But it passes in a few seconds.
Yer_Maw
28th July 2006, 14:48
i dont look at a mirror in the morning, and im an only child. not that im manky, i just forget.
garew
29th July 2006, 05:47
self conscious people want to be vain, but hate something about themselves. Mirrors can be a niightmare if you hate seeing your self in them There is a disease called body dysmorphic disorder that can be hell. People who have it usually cover all reflective surfaces in there homes.
May Kasahara
31st July 2006, 12:55
mirrors are brilliant, i love looking at myself and im not ashamed of it either. i dont think im great looking, maybe its to do with being an only child, only had myself for company. sob.
Hahaha, me too (except the only child bit). A friend really cussed me once at a club cos I had noticed I was dancing in front of a mirrored wall and was checking myself out - why is that bad? I just wanted to know what I looked like (and for once, I didn't look like a complete tit, although that could just have been the drugs).
They are quite strange though, mirrors - I've had some dark moments with them as well. When I was all messed up in the head as a teenager and going through a particularly bad late-night self loathing spell, I became convinced that if I looked at my reflection for too long I would see it move independently and it would start actually verbally attacking me and freaking me out...I used to run past mirrors and only give myself the briefest glance to check for stray toothpaste and that.
emef
31st July 2006, 13:03
mirrors annoy me but thats probably cos i'm not a looker
some mirrors i look ok some i look very bad
when i move to a new house i take the big mirror round the place
and when i look good, thats where the mirror stays :)
i'm wearing shorts at the mo, but i'm not going out in them
adsr
31st July 2006, 14:35
is it the chinese or japanese that believe that the placement of mirror is very important?...
that is where you place it in the house?
also I think there's a culture that believes that mirrors are powerful because the reflect the truth or something like that...I just woke up so I'm not working at full brain capacity...:)
Paddy
31st July 2006, 15:20
is it the chinese or japanese that believe that the placement of mirror is very important?...
that is where you place it in the house?
Sounds like Feng Shui to me, probably important to both the Chinese and Japanese though, it's all about the Chi innit.
Lady E
31st July 2006, 17:54
when we were teenagers, my best friend's older sister had a mirror that made you look about half a stone slimmer. i believe some clothes shops have these too. we didnt care that it wasnt reflecting reality and always looked in it before going out. i wish i had it still...
I look in mirrors a lot of the time, just to check that I'm still looking alright. Also, I tend never to be happy with my hair, so faff about with it all day. Don't think I've ever had good hair, just decreasing levels of shitness.
adsr
31st July 2006, 18:25
Sounds like Feng Shui to me, probably important to both the Chinese and Japanese though, it's all about the Chi innit.
actually now that you mention it, yes...because the idea is that mirrors reflect energy...so if it's possitive energy, then you would want that to be reflected to you and if it was neg energy then you would want the mirror to face a window...etc..
who the hell knows why I remember such trivial crap...I don't believe in it...just find it interesting...:)
spoon
31st July 2006, 18:27
mirrors are for shaving and driving. anything else is just OUTRAGEOUS!
adsr
31st July 2006, 18:29
when we were teenagers, my best friend's older sister had a mirror that made you look about half a stone slimmer. i believe some clothes shops have these too. we didnt care that it wasnt reflecting reality and always looked in it before going out. i wish i had it still...
I think the culture who believes in mirror's being the reflection of truth - could be south american..I wish I could remember...didn't include mirrors that are created for purpose of chicks looking slimmer...;)
I think they just meant reg mirrors...lol
BTW:
I saw the pic of you in the other thread and your beautiful....your size is gorgeous....I wish I had a body like that...and I say this not trying to kiss your butt or anything...but I'm as skinny as stick and I've always wished I had a beautiful female physical that included nice boobs and butt.....the grass is always greener I suppose...
adsr
31st July 2006, 18:30
mirrors are for shaving and driving. anything else is just OUTRAGEOUS!
come on...you don't have a peek to see if you've got something in your teeth or a little sumthing in your nose or if you feel a bump coming on your chin or nose?...
spoon
31st July 2006, 18:37
come on...you don't have a peek to see if you've got something in your teeth or a little sumthing in your nose or if you feel a bump coming on your chin or nose?...
no, i've thought this through and i stand by my previous statement :)
adsr
31st July 2006, 18:56
no, i've thought this through and i stand by my previous statement :)
and I simply don't believe you...altho I hesitate to use the word:
LIAR....lol..
dirtyho
31st July 2006, 18:57
Feng Shui uses a Ba Gua mirror to balance Chi in the environment, the theory is highly linked to the I-Ching:
http://www.jadedragon.com/archives/fengshui/fengshu.html
Ba Gua is also the name of an amazing internal martial art from China check out this oldie doing it, I wish I could move like this at his age:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndY4jMB9w6U&search=ba%20gua
I have been wearing only shorts and flip flops for the past 4-5 weeks, I got called called a chav by my mate when I visited Brighton the other weekend for having Adidas sports cotton shorts on. But what the fuck do I care, they are so comfy, and it is so hot! In fact I wear shorts in February and March sometimes on my bike, those artificial fibre ones for cycling with a cycling top, knee length socks and vans shoes. I might look a tit, but it is the CORRECT clothing for cycling and I just change at the other end - so there!
spoon
31st July 2006, 19:12
and I simply don't believe you...altho I hesitate to use the word:
LIAR....lol..
the vikings didn't use mirrors...
http://www.newizv.ru/images/photos/other/20050126210812_4-VIKINGS.jpg
and they did just fine.
adsr
31st July 2006, 19:50
the vikings didn't use mirrors...
http://www.newizv.ru/images/photos/other/20050126210812_4-VIKINGS.jpg
and they did just fine.
you are looking at the same photo I'm looking at, yeah?..
so unless you dress like that and you spend your life at sea in order to rape and pilage other countries...I suggest you use a mirror every once in a while..
;)
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