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SharonDavids
15th February 2006, 15:20
Ok..so me and my new "friend with benefits" messed around a little today..but it was just some making out and feeling up. BUT tomorrow I want to go a little more..and I know he wants me to too. So I'm thinking just a hand job. So what do I need to know about giving a guy a hand job...Please tell me everything you know about it..like do I keep making out with him...what are some things that make it extra good...what do I do when he cums???? Please help..he knows I'm inexperienced but I wanna suprise him and take charge a little..cuz today it was all him! lol Thanks in advice!

gypsy_cream
15th February 2006, 15:21
you're a whore

Sheridan
15th February 2006, 15:21
use lots of spit.

SharonDavids
15th February 2006, 15:22
you're a whore

lol

Loz
15th February 2006, 15:23
this gimmick is almost up to Prince Charlie levels of shiteness now.

SharonDavids
15th February 2006, 15:24
lol

nico
15th February 2006, 15:24
ask warren for a handjob-recipe lol

iain c
15th February 2006, 15:25
give us a ---- davids :)

joe pinapples
15th February 2006, 15:25
Man this is fucking pathetic. Talk about reaching new levels of unfunniness.

Roy Shaw
15th February 2006, 15:26
"Friend with benefits!?" I think that's a bad idea. I'd save doing sexual things for a long-term, committed, monogamous relationship built on mutual love and trust myself, but that's your business and not what you asked.

Get him to do it for you and watch how he does it, so you can do it for him. Start with light slow touching and increase the speed and pressure gradually. Use circular motions on the head and downward movements along the shaft with the pressure on the underside. Squeeze the base firmly but the tip gently. Tickle just below the head on the underside very gently. Slow down and stop when he starts to get tense all over and almost ready to climax. Then very lightly rake the head, the underside and the balls with your fingernails a few times before starting over. Change what you're doing around and ask him what he likes. Do all the things he likes, but don't just do what he likes best all the time. Use the other strokes he likes first before moving on to his favorites.

Talk to him while you do it. Tell him how big and hard and beautiful it is. Make him beg for the motions that really get him off. When you're both ready for him to finish, tell him how much you want him to right now just for you. Try begging him or commanding him to climax and see which works better. Praise him and thank him when he does. Act impressed and flattered because all that was for you. Tell him how much you love making him feel good. Make it last, and make him feel loved. Never let him think you're in a hurry or glad it's finally over!

Your goal should be to love him and love pleasing him and love being part of his pleasure. Have him rest and relax afterward and rest your head on his chest so you can hear his heart pounding and enjoy knowing that's for you and you made it happen.

It need to be about more than sharing orgasm, though. It needs to be about sharing love. Neither one of you can ever rub each other as well as you can yourselves. If that's all it's about, save it for someone you love.

invisibledan
15th February 2006, 15:27
oh darling philly, you dont mind me calling you that in public do you? these games arre such fun, and you really dont need advice on handjobs, you were grrrrreat last night.xx

joe pinapples
15th February 2006, 15:28
fucking hell. thats it I'm off, this is sad and creepy.

SharonDavids
15th February 2006, 15:32
fucking hell. thats it I'm off, this is sad and creepy.


:! lol

nico
15th February 2006, 15:36
what do I do when he cums????

depends on the pressure lol

Jeniffer Mills
15th February 2006, 16:00
what do I do when he cums????

..Swallow `fucks sake!

Lady E
15th February 2006, 16:17
phil i cant believe you are now getting sharon and roy to talk to each other. please give us all a break.

harvestine
15th February 2006, 16:18
Has Phil been dumped? Oh dear.