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LEFTHANDLOU
25th October 2002, 00:47
Man I wrote a Fucked up email to my girl, and ten minutes after I sent it I was like Fuck what the hell did i just do !!!! I read it again and it was not right. Now she is fucking pissed guys. God I hate when they get you worked up at work and then you go and do something stupid.
I don't know guys She's Italian and her Father......Well lets just say he had to leave Italy.....suddenly.

invisibleplanet
25th October 2002, 01:15
oops Lefthanded

mia papa ha un lupara

i hope her papa don't have one :!

pille'ocheoni
25th October 2002, 01:20
wow,hope everthing turns out right.good luck:)))

Sheridan
25th October 2002, 01:24
is her last name corleone??

piscaries
25th October 2002, 02:15
you can hide in my basement if you need to, but i hope you don't need to. i know i've hit "send" at bad times... but it never lead to inter-continental conflict. hope all goes well.

Daddys Girl
25th October 2002, 07:48
I've hit send and really lived to regret it, although I thought I was doing a very good thing at the time...

Good luck if you do hear from 'The Family' mate...

D_G ;o)

gunjack
25th October 2002, 08:00
if you can ever convince her to listen to your story, be straight out and tell her how you were feeling and why you said what you did. if she loves you, she will want to hear your motivations.

Django
25th October 2002, 09:08
lol

Lady E
25th October 2002, 12:27
ALWAYS wait at least one hour before sending an incendiary email

i have learnt this the hard way and believe me, i never send them now without being sure when the anger has died down that i mean it

im sure she will understand though...
good luck!

jamyna
25th October 2002, 12:52
Sound advice there. Workplace "emails of fury" are rather indicative of a boring job, no? Well thats how I've justified my rants in the past.

pille'ocheoni
25th October 2002, 13:00
hey there planet,you got a picture!!!!!!!cool.......youre a real person:)

Basic
25th October 2002, 13:26
I made the mistake of sending a rather long-winded e-mailing detailing some form of "empire-building" conspiracy in my work at the people themselves. I regretted sending it at the time, as it caused a lot of animosity and even this stands to this day, but it went on to show that I was right and I like that. I must admit, I do get uncomfortable with some of the shit-stirring that comes my way even now purely of the back of that mail. However, it was good to get a reaction out of usually cold, unflappable mercenaries and showed them for what they were!!

I was in the process of sending one about something the other day, and then sat for about an hour chenging it to something less offensive. I'm glad I did, for when the 'red mist' had cleared I realised that I could have done some inreparable damage to a future network of opportunity.

I sympathise, as sometimes it cannot be helped......

emef
25th October 2002, 13:31
i think i should take emmas advice, i often send out sarcastic and angry replies to people while still in the the middle of a slight fug and always regret it afterwards oh well!!!

deccard
25th October 2002, 13:58
strange. it never happened to me. it takes a while till i get agressive and much longer till i explode.
but i have this big talent of asking stupid questions in stupid moments. i should say it´s a fucking (moron)curse :)
so yeah i regret some mails but not because they where offensive in an agressive way.

Tomoki
25th October 2002, 14:48
Hell yeah,

I made this fault more than one time. I wrote some very ugly mails, because I was very pissed from some persons.
Afterwards it was not that good, the better option would be the personal confrontation with these persons to discuss our problems in a dialogue not a monologue like the mails.
Unfortunately you are able to say things via email you never would say face to face.

LEFTHANDLOU
25th October 2002, 18:41
Thanks for the advise guys & Gals, And thanks for offering the basement, I don't think it will be necessary. I kinda blew it, but to be honest i really meant some of the stuff I said, I just did not say them tactfully.

Anyway i'm going to try calling her again, and if that fails, I will have to pull out the secret weapon...........Flowers :)

grobelaar
26th October 2002, 01:23
Hmmm, not much consolation now, but e-mail and texting and other modern means of communication can be bad - `i think Emma is right always leave an hour then you will either decide not to send it, or if things are that bad, then its best to talk face-to-face.

E-mail can seem easy, but then the recipient has the copy and they can read it over and over again and the problem gets worse.

I hope you and your girl get together and sort things out

tonyrohr
29th October 2002, 17:30
1 - 800 - FLOWERS

better hope they deliver to Italy and in bulk.
you have some serious making up to do in anycase.

d'oh!

karitek
29th October 2002, 17:42
i am horrible at this...usually it involves me getting drunk, writing an angry text that i never intended to send and then hitting send instead of save or delete. sometimes i wish there was a meter in my blood stream that would turn off my texting abilities once a certain alcohol content was reached.

Ruben A
29th October 2002, 17:52
hmm.. never tried it.. never angry... but I once came home from a night drunk ofcourse... and wrote a letter to a girl because I liked her - the worse part was that I didn´t press "send"; it wasn´t an email.. next day I found a stamp and went to the postoffice.....









see that was a sweet story, huh?

:) :)

Lady E
29th October 2002, 17:55
and? what did the girl in question think ruben
and left hand lou
did flowers work?

Ruben A
29th October 2002, 18:03
she was happy and had never got a letter from a boy before..
(neither have I.... hahahahahahhha!!!) actually she was about to dump her boyfriend because of that... but that´s another story!!!


lol

Daddys Girl
30th October 2002, 19:31
Yeah...but was there a rosey ending to it all? Did you get the girl? All work out nicely in the end?

I'm a sucker for a sweet story - indulge me!

D_G ;o)

LEFTHANDLOU
30th October 2002, 20:10
Oh man she's got me where she wants me. She is no push over.

I tell you what sometimes it sucks to be a man. Makes you want to trade your muscles and pistol in for a pair tits and a pretty face.

Women are too powerful

But men are bullish and don't give up that easy......I'll have her yet

I'll keep ya posted

phdbob
30th October 2002, 22:14
sounds like:

"don´t push me cause i´m close to the edge...i´m trying not to loose my head...ah ha ha ha...!"

why don´t you sell your pistol?

LEFTHANDLOU
1st November 2002, 20:33
What do you Mean Bob? You want me to Sell Dick? Thats tragic my friend !

By Pistol, I was referring to my wally wacker
My One eyed Snake
My Mr. Happy
My Package

I can't sell it ! I love that thing........One day we are going to walk off into the sunset together.......

You and me
And me and you.....
So Happy together

pille'ocheoni
1st November 2002, 22:02
haahah.heheheh...thats so funny:)g*****

7875
2nd November 2002, 00:28
i had a bad break up once with a girl who was going to school thousands of miles away via email. we went back and forth about why she was deciding to end it and why i needed her and on and on. at that time i was extremely weak mentally and it got really pathetic. i think i said some awful things but at the time it made sense. about a month later she came back to town for a visit with her new boyfriend.
anyway, what's the moral? i guess it could be that modern technology lets us now know instantly some information that maybe we should just let unfold naturally. you can make rash decisions before you've thought it out and then its too late to go back and erase it.
and, when you're 20, its fucking foolish to expect that some girl is going to stay faithful to you when shes off at college getting it on left and right. what a big pussy i was.

Lady E
4th November 2002, 16:41
aaah. that's sweet.

phdbob
4th November 2002, 20:10
@lefthand

i´d take your gulliver for £10 and a brand nu lipstick!

:)

Loz
5th November 2002, 16:34
I had a relationship over email for a few months. It only got bad when we met.

We really clicked from the moment we first spoke to each other, used to email and talk to each other several times a day. She came over to the UK to stay with me for a week, and it was really good for the first few days. About half way through I got this nagging doubt. I'm not sure what it was or where it came from, but it was there. I tried to ignore it, but I knew it was affecting the way I was with her, until after thinking long and hard, I surmised that perhaps I wasn't in love with her. Once I'd come to their conclusion, I had to break up with her, since without love a relationship is nothing, and I couldn't pretend there was love there, it would have been unfair on her for the betrayal and unfair on me because I wouldn't have been happy. I felt like a total shit for breaking up with her, and I suppose I was. It was pretty selfish my reasons, but at the time it seemed a good idea. I just came clean with all my feelings, making the mistake of not covering it up in fancy talk about it being me who had the problem, so I guess it probably came over as her being the problem, which wasn't my intention at all.

However, we're still quite good friends, don't talk nearly as often, but she found someone else about 2 months after her visit to me, and they moved in together. So I'm quite glad that I was able to get out of the way so that could happen and she is happy.